Tuesday, April 7, 2009

I don't judge

People have their own life, they act differently and have their own style. I've been watching [ gossip girl ] lately, and I found out that there are many type of people out there. Watching all these series are not pointless and not wasting time. I realised that I don't actually judge PEOPLE ( only human, if you know what I mean ). But sometimes, ya, there will always have 'buts', so I do get angry with some people, but as time passes, I noticed that they are not that bad either! I will always be influenced by other people. So later I don't dislike them. I treat everyone equally. 

Do you know that judge and comment are totally different. So when people comment, don't say they are judging you. ( btw, you are lucky if there is someone willing to comment you, that helps to improve ourselves ). So just listen and analyse whether it is worth listening. If not, then just forget about it. It doesn't cost a cent to listen to people's opinion. 

Back to the topic. They have their own personal life, so just don't try to cross the line and don't interfere their personal life. 

I won't judge you if you tell me your deepest and darkest secret! [ Gossip girl ] have a lot of fantastic lines like " WITH FRIENDS LIKE THESE, WHO NEEDS ARMIES? ". Do you understand this line. Well basically it means the friends are always there for you to help you. I think that is what it meant. So friends don't judge, they help friends and be there for them all the time. So I do hope everyone I know is the greatest friends on earth! Maybe sometimes, we don't agree on things, but friends will always understand. Now do you understand the true value of friendship!

In this huge and dirty and ... society, we will meet all sorts of people everyday. Just be prepared to defend yourself. Ignoring them is to protect yourself. Don't mix with them is to prevent ourselves from getting into trouble. People may think that these actions are very arrogant but No. That is why think before you give comments. And don't judge. 

2 comments:

Unknown said...

hey hey.. i watch GG too! yay to great drama series!! haha..

well, here's my COMMENT (must put in bold to emphasize, haha):
I don't think as normal human beings, we can NOT JUDGE, because frankly speaking, when u observe, analyse and form your own point of view of something, that's technically judging...
But I sort of understand what u mean by judging people, as in don't have preconceived notions (learnt from si tenggang, lol) about people based on brief knowledge and vague impressions.. and if that's what u mean, i agree! hee

sorry, i'm just a bored busybody browsing blogs... (wow, unintentional alliteration, cool...)

=P

marcus said...

Well first and foremost thanks for viewing, that means a lot to me!

Am glad to know to know that u totally understand what i mean.

Yes that is what i mean.

I don't judge mean I don't judge in the sense that I do not think badly of people for what they have done and ...

Just hard to explain and thank god u understand!